Taken from the Florida Times Union - Annie's Mailbox (Editors of Ann Landers Longtime Column)
This really says it all for us.
KD
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Thursday, May 21, 2009
7804 Text and 10067 Voice Minutes in One Month
Do the math... over 50 hours a week of communication ... would you be brainwashed also???I know they "wore her down" at a depressed time.. until she finally agreed to leave Florida and return to them. This image of the Sprint Bill for Leah's cell phone number for the month of February 2009 proves it!!! She left on 3.8.09 and we have not seen her or heard her voice since.
Before you UO guys and folks who continually try to shut me down.. and start with calling me a "liar" and stuff...
This is truth.
We received one email from someone pretending to be Leah... the way it was written was not at all like our Leah ... not the way she speaks/writes at all. The truth is we still to this day .. over 2.5 months later have no idea even where she sleeps at night.
This after her calling us and checking in 5 to 6 times a day!!!! Again.. she is completely brainwashed. No doubt about it.
What OUR LEAH is really like....
Just one example of a card that Leah wrote to her father. This was written during a time (November 2008) that Leah was on her meds and going to a weekly therapy session.
This is the sweet girl that is "in there" somewhere.
This Leah would never hurt her family or herself.
We honestly don't "know" and don't want to know the person that Leah is at this moment.
Leah... return to your good senses that are in "there" somewhere. This is not what you need.
What you are doing is FINAL... you have done much damage that WILL hurt your future. Stop and think clearly of your future.. most of all DON'T take the lazy way out. It never works and will come back to haunt you in many ways.
Your choices now have been quite foolish.. but you still CAN change them!! Do it for yourself.. you owe yourself more than some stranger... you are not a desperate woman. You do have choices!!! Use them.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Leah needs HELP not a Marriage!!!
I took down a lot of this blog because it had disintegrated into a lot of anger and absurdity.
Look people lets get back to the CORE of this blog ... Leah ran off in 2007 and now again in 2009. This is a pattern with her.. part of the mania she truly loves. In fact she laughingly called her running away in 2007 her "adventure". She also thanked us for "stopping her from ruining her life" once we got her OUT of Brooklyn. She was in a stupor over it for quite some time afterwards and was so happy. There was no turning back she was thrilled to be out of Brooklyn and back into normal clothes, normal food and a normal lifestyle!!!
That is what manic depressive people do. Their mania is insane fast paced lunacy... fast, exciting, even creative periods can come out of manic states... that is why folks don't stay on their meds... the mania is like a high. But look out because with the mania comes the depression. My take is when she sees her surroundings for what it really is and the honeymoon is over ... she will run or worse.
Of course no one wants to think about the real Leah. Everyone sees a beautiful and believable girl who is getting married..... and they think what is wrong with her parents.. why can't they just be happy for her???
Truth is that Leah has been through many young men in the past 6 years, several of them "the love of her life". You think that part of it just growing up stuff but other parts are way overboard.... one of the overboards ended in a boy trying to take his life, (this boy is comatose in an Orlando Hospital), the other overboard was in 2007 with Velvel .. her "true love" who she left in 2007 for... Another "overboard" ended in her being hospitalized for alcohol poisoning and the dreaded 3 am phone call we received from her girlfriend who "really thought Leah was going to die". Everything with Leah is to excess... money, men, life..... again this is common with mania.
Leah is a "cutter" and has cut herself off and on for years. Leah has a very dark side and a horrific temper. One of these temper tandrums resulted in her slamming me to the floor and kicking me at least 20 times with hard leather shoes on.
And even sadder... Leah lies... and lies.... and lies and lies and lies..... about practically everything. At one point I could tell the lies from the truth..... today I have to be very careful and do my "homework" in order to know what is truth from Leah.
Leah desperately needs to be seeing a therapist FULL TIME.... supposedly she is on her meds???? But who knows? Weekly sessions are critical for Leah!!!
Why would anyone support a Shidduch when a young woman has so many serious problems?
We want her to GET WELL... WE WANT TO "GIVE HER AWAY" to someone that she LOVES. We want her to be in a conventional healthy relationship.... this is what Leah always wanted for herself.
Look for over 50 hours a week in February the month before she "dropped out of her life" there were incoming cell phone messages and text messages to Leah all from the Brooklyn area. Some one...or more accurately many "phone numbers" wanted Leah badly to go back to Brooklyn and obviously they finally WORE HER DOWN.... in a depressed moment she had ALL SHE COULD TAKE OF SCHOOL AND WORK AND DAY TO DAY PRESSURES AND SHE BOLTED!!!
Now she thinks she has no choices but to go through with this sham of a marriage... but she is YOUNG, smart and beautiful.. she has plenty of time ... there is NO need to rush into a marriage now.. none at all. Not to mention the critical importance of Leah getting her education. (YOU have choices Leah, don't marry someone you just met and don't love.)
She WILL run away again... guaranteed. It is just a matter of WHEN not IF.
Yes she is 20.. but she has a history of so many problems, she is 20 going on 10. SOMEONE!!!!Please help us get her out of there. That is what the blog is about NOT a mud slinging contest.
There has to be someone out there who can reach her.. who can ask her the REALLY TOUGH questions to get her out of there. See it for what it REALLY is people.. not some novel... this is our daughter.....this is our family.
Yes we have played rough.. and will continue to do so to try to save her from this life threatening choice that she is making. Sometimes it takes unconventional efforts to tackle an unconventional problem!!!!
Take off your ROSE colored glasses and see it for what it really is.
Help us please ... someone.....Before it is too late.
This is not a girl from the "Chood".. this is a conservative Jewish girl from a mildly religious family .. it is unconventional from all aspects... please wake up!!!
Look people lets get back to the CORE of this blog ... Leah ran off in 2007 and now again in 2009. This is a pattern with her.. part of the mania she truly loves. In fact she laughingly called her running away in 2007 her "adventure". She also thanked us for "stopping her from ruining her life" once we got her OUT of Brooklyn. She was in a stupor over it for quite some time afterwards and was so happy. There was no turning back she was thrilled to be out of Brooklyn and back into normal clothes, normal food and a normal lifestyle!!!
That is what manic depressive people do. Their mania is insane fast paced lunacy... fast, exciting, even creative periods can come out of manic states... that is why folks don't stay on their meds... the mania is like a high. But look out because with the mania comes the depression. My take is when she sees her surroundings for what it really is and the honeymoon is over ... she will run or worse.
Of course no one wants to think about the real Leah. Everyone sees a beautiful and believable girl who is getting married..... and they think what is wrong with her parents.. why can't they just be happy for her???
Truth is that Leah has been through many young men in the past 6 years, several of them "the love of her life". You think that part of it just growing up stuff but other parts are way overboard.... one of the overboards ended in a boy trying to take his life, (this boy is comatose in an Orlando Hospital), the other overboard was in 2007 with Velvel .. her "true love" who she left in 2007 for... Another "overboard" ended in her being hospitalized for alcohol poisoning and the dreaded 3 am phone call we received from her girlfriend who "really thought Leah was going to die". Everything with Leah is to excess... money, men, life..... again this is common with mania.
Leah is a "cutter" and has cut herself off and on for years. Leah has a very dark side and a horrific temper. One of these temper tandrums resulted in her slamming me to the floor and kicking me at least 20 times with hard leather shoes on.
And even sadder... Leah lies... and lies.... and lies and lies and lies..... about practically everything. At one point I could tell the lies from the truth..... today I have to be very careful and do my "homework" in order to know what is truth from Leah.
Leah desperately needs to be seeing a therapist FULL TIME.... supposedly she is on her meds???? But who knows? Weekly sessions are critical for Leah!!!
Why would anyone support a Shidduch when a young woman has so many serious problems?
We want her to GET WELL... WE WANT TO "GIVE HER AWAY" to someone that she LOVES. We want her to be in a conventional healthy relationship.... this is what Leah always wanted for herself.
Look for over 50 hours a week in February the month before she "dropped out of her life" there were incoming cell phone messages and text messages to Leah all from the Brooklyn area. Some one...or more accurately many "phone numbers" wanted Leah badly to go back to Brooklyn and obviously they finally WORE HER DOWN.... in a depressed moment she had ALL SHE COULD TAKE OF SCHOOL AND WORK AND DAY TO DAY PRESSURES AND SHE BOLTED!!!
Now she thinks she has no choices but to go through with this sham of a marriage... but she is YOUNG, smart and beautiful.. she has plenty of time ... there is NO need to rush into a marriage now.. none at all. Not to mention the critical importance of Leah getting her education. (YOU have choices Leah, don't marry someone you just met and don't love.)
She WILL run away again... guaranteed. It is just a matter of WHEN not IF.
Yes she is 20.. but she has a history of so many problems, she is 20 going on 10. SOMEONE!!!!Please help us get her out of there. That is what the blog is about NOT a mud slinging contest.
There has to be someone out there who can reach her.. who can ask her the REALLY TOUGH questions to get her out of there. See it for what it REALLY is people.. not some novel... this is our daughter.....this is our family.
Yes we have played rough.. and will continue to do so to try to save her from this life threatening choice that she is making. Sometimes it takes unconventional efforts to tackle an unconventional problem!!!!
Take off your ROSE colored glasses and see it for what it really is.
Help us please ... someone.....Before it is too late.
This is not a girl from the "Chood".. this is a conservative Jewish girl from a mildly religious family .. it is unconventional from all aspects... please wake up!!!
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